FLIRTATIONSHIPS

[Flir-ta-tion-ships] n. A trifling connection, association or involvement with something that lacks long-term intention. Musings on fashion, culture, food, art, politics, yoga, relationships, and all the messy pieces in between.

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Daphne Guiness--love her

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PEAS AND LOVE

INSTRUCTIONS FOR LIVING

Friend do it this way--that is, whatever you do in life, do the very best you can with both your heart and mind. And if you do it that way, the power of the universe will come to your assistance, if your heart and mind are in unity.

When one sits in the hoop of the people, one must be responsible because all of creation is related. And the hurt of one is the hurt of all. And the honor of one is the honor of all. And whatever we do affects everything in the universe.

If you do it that way--that is, if you truly join your heart and mind as one--whatever you ask for, that's the way it's going to be.

Thanks, Mel! You tha sheeeez, girl!!

Love the hair, back to blonde?

Gchat Bloody Marys

Heart and Soul: liz just made us bloody marys. want me to send you one through the computer?

Sent at 1:12 PM on Friday

Linda: yes, please...

no, wait.....actually, im passing back.... can you add a little more tobasco to mine?

.......okay, yeah.....no stop stop...too much!....oh well....yummmmmm, now its perfect!

Washington Square Park

Danee and Linds (could use some rays)

Springtime in the City!!

Last Saturday, strolling down Thompson St.

Fresh Cut Whaaaaaa?

I think they meant PEONIES. This is from an actual nursery in Carmel, Indiana, just down the road from my parents' house. Aha!

Wantneed(probwon't)have

Sexy stockings

Twerk Stylee

I've pretty much adopted this as my work style

Pillow Fight

We saw a huge pillow fight in Union Square on our way to a friend's Brooklyn bbq last week

Lauren and Mom's trip to New York

Yoga this morning at Exhale Central Park S.

"A rigid mind is very sure but often wrong. A flexible mind is generally unsure, but often right. So keep asking the questions, looking for the answers in life. Through your yoga practice, all the while going with the flow, remember the one thing that is constant is change. And what worked for us once may not right now or ever again." -Donna Amrita Davidge

Marc by Marc Jacobs, Fall 2010 Ready to Wear Collection

I fell in love this weekend. Twice. The first time it was with a gold, Marc Jacobs New Q Lil Riz leather hobo bag. The second time was with John, our Valentines Day waiter at Lupa. (John, if you're reading this, call me. We're going to be great together.)

Marc Jacobs, Fall 2010 RTW

http://runway.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/02/16/marc-jacobss-magic-lane/

Happy Valentine's Day!

Locanda Verde

I'm really looking forward to Valentine's Day Brunch. Doesn't this look d-lish?!

Atrium

My roommate took me to a great new spot a couple weeks ago. Its called Atrium, on Broadway and Bleeker. Eeeeeeyikes! Trouble... (Sam Edelman shoes)

Stop Nibbling.

"Those that only take a nibble here and a nibble there will never attain anything... Those who really want to become something must give up, once and for all, this nibbling at things. Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life. Think of it, dream of it, live on that idea."

-Swami Vivekananda, India.

"True currency in this bankrupt world is what you share with someone else when you're uncool."

Slice of heaven at the Grace Hotel...

long-view of dry sauna, stone shower room in the middle, and steam room at the far end. You won't find any nature soundtracks at this faux-spa, only dance beats and euro techno.

Day 31 and counting...

Whole Foods Coma

I had a moment today in Whole Foods on 25th and 7th Avenue. I was somewhere between completely exhausted and mesmerized by the assortment of delicious-looking dried fruit when I completely froze, unable to move. Usually I just feel hungry ...overwhelmed or maybe inspired, even ...healthy? (I dont think walking around a grocery store counts as exercise.) But combine that feeling with a tinge of tired and I'm paralyzed. A friend of mine in the city has three words to say about the Whole Foods on Bowery and Houston, "Love, love, love." ...Love the fact that it covers an entire city block? Amazing. (She also says all the others can suck it.)

I Recommend Trying These...

I love these things... essential oil, antibacterial towelettes by Herban Essentials. The bag that I bought came with peppermint (for invigorating and energizing), lemon (for revitalizing and uplifting), and lavender (for calming). I keep them in a drawer of my desk at work and there are suggestions on the package for all kinds of uses such as wiping off keyboards, dispeling nausea, or massaging the back of your neck to relieve headaches. I used a lavender towelette last night while I was watching a movie with a friend and almost immediately fell asleep ...then again, it could've been the wine.

J.D. Salinger died today, age 91.

"If you really want to hear about it, the first thing you'll probably want to know is where I was born and what my lousy childhood was like, and how my parents were occupied and all before they had me, and all that David Copperfield kind of crap, but I don't feel like going into it, if you want to know the truth." -The Catcher in the Rye

Rest in peace, J.D. Salinger.

My Horoscope January 27, 2010:

"You can't go solo today -- or, rather, if you do you are sure to miss out on some important events. Make sure that you're at least in touch with the major players in your life, and try to say yes to all invitations."

...um, YES!

The foyer of Danee's SoHo apartment.

A New Yorker at heart. (Bronco)

Lanterns in a nearby window.

Jenna Cera, an old friend from high school. Nyc

Morning commuters

These are a few of my favorite things...

Isn't this gorgeous? I wantneedmust have one.

Zooey Deschanel

Goose Chase

I've been working on an article lately featuring a friend of mine, Pete, a beekeeper and avid skier (among other things) who launched his own chapstick company, Uncle Pete's Lip Lube, with great success. When I recently asked him how he would describe his skiing style he sent me on a goose chase in search of Igor Stravinsky's Pas d'action from Apollo and said I would find my answer there. Part of being a writer is having an appreciation for being sidetracked, and Pas d'action led me to a wonderful quote:

"Just as appetite comes by eating, so work brings inspiration, if inspiration is not discernible at the beginning."

I don't know how I feel about this...

Competitive yoga? Yesterday the NYTimes published a piece about the 7th annual New York Regional Yoga Championships hosted by the United States Yoga Federation and how competitive yoga is supposedly on the rise in popularity. Don't get me wrong, I practice nearly every day and I have certainly drank the kool-aid, but this is taking things a little too far. And get this, the winner gets a free massage. No kidding.

This is the women's division winner, Kyoko Katsura.

Halloween NYC

MY HOROSCOPE: Nov. 19

"You can tap a deep well of creativity today, but you must find a sensible method to integrate it into your day or you won't have much to show for your efforts. Instead of trying to capture a sudden burst of brilliance, concentrate on finding a groove that's comfortable enough to sustain. Being productive is more important than being clever." Virgo

THIS GUY is a fashion designer?

So... I've seen this guy, Waris Ahluwalia, pop up all over the place in photos lately. I know him as one of my favorite characters from The Darjeeling Limited, but as it turns out, he is also a talented fashion designer and was nominated as one of the CFDA's nine finalists this year. Imagine my surprise... "Ahluwalia out on the town more than ever lately, customary glass of mineral water in hand. For Halloween he co-hosted a shindig at the Wooly, the new private event space dreamed up by his sometime collaborator Eric Adolfsen. A few nights before that, he showed off his latest Omnia Vincit Amor jewelry collection at Phillips de Pury. And just last week, he was the guest of honor at a party hosted by the permanent representative of India to the United Nations, Ambassador Hardeep Singh Puri, in celebration of the new Assouline book he co-edited, To India With Love. An actor in one of his other lives, Ahluwalia gives the impression that he could take or leave the scene, while being firmly at the center of it. " -Style.com

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FASHION FLIRTATIONSHIP

Love the dress. Stinkin' love the shoes. I really think my love affair with fashion has outgrown the flirtationship phase. I mean, COME ON.

Day Late and Dollar Short

Alexa Chung

I realize that I'm a day late and dollar short having a style crush on Alexa Chung, but she's got a great thing going on.

Cool.

Cape Sleeve Coat, Classic 60's

I'm a coat and jacket kind of girl. I have waay too many and I'm pretty sure that I inherited the knack from my Dad, who also owns plenty of jackets. So, you can imagine how difficult it's been for me to weed through my collection in anticipation of my upcoming move. I have a similar vintage black version of this coat that I bought at a terrific vintage store in Niwot, Colorado. Seeing this photo inspired me to hold on to this timeless classic once and for all.

Katie and Ruby

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Overheard

"Love is born with the pleasure of looking at each other, it is fed with the necessity of seeing each other, it is concluded with the impossibility of separation."

I'm no real expert here, but that sounds about right to me...

Oldie but goodie

Lindy hoops

Know This.

I do not care what car you drive, where you live. If you know someone who knows someone who knows someone. If your clothes are this years cutting edge. If your trust fund is unlimited. If you are A-list, B-list or never heard of you list.

I only care about the words that flutter from your mind. They are the only thing you truly own. The only thing I will remember you by. I will not fall in love with your bones and skin. I will not fall in love with the places you have been.

I will not fall in love with anything but the words that flutter from your extraordinary mind.

Yay! It's almost Fall! Love her socks...

THE INFAMOUS JESS: Widely referenced, rarely seen

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The Latest From VanityFair.com

Elon Musk Reportedly Asked a SpaceX Employee, on Multiple Occasions, to “Have His Babies”
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How Things Work
A Guy Named Doug (Greenspan)...
El Viaje a BA

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NYTimes: Self-Employed Depression

Recession Takes A Toll On Freelance Livelihoods

You Can Sleep When You're Dead

"Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand, chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming, 'Woo hoo! What a ride'" -Unknown

Carbondale Residents Take Publishing Into Their Own Hands

Vive la Print!

Residents in Carbondale, Colorado have taken it amongst themselves to fill the void left by the recent collapse of the Carbondale Valley Journal. The paper's 1975 founder, Rebecca Young, puts it this way: replacing the Journal with the newly-founded nonprofit paper, Sopris Sun, "...just beat the dickens out of sitting around whining that our paper was dead." Now that's what I'm talking about! Too bad they're not hiring...

Fine, they'll just publish the newspaper themselves

Mari Reardon

Dressing like the locals

Eavesdropping On A Close Friend

Overheard...
Mari: "So... still going back in time...right before I got to [New Zealand] I stayed in Karamea at this wicky wack backpackers place called Rongo Backpackers. The building, which was small, was painted in rainbow colors, so it really stuck out. Everyone was hugging each other and loving each other ...ughhh! Hippies! I have nothing against hippies, but this was nuts. Two people started hugging in front of me and didn't let go for like 7 minutes (I counted), and I was like, 'Oh, shit, I hope she is okay. I hope no one died,' and then their arms broke apart and she was like, 'Wow, that was great. Thanks' ....ahh...ok?"

Mari Reardon is a fierce, American traveler wandering aimlessly around New Zealand. Read more about her wild, vulgar adventures at Oh, Shit What Have I Done...

Trevor Sparks, Gentleman Extraordinaire

My cousin Trevor and I grew up in a tight-knit family (our mothers are sisters) and we're roughly the same age. Between tours to Iraq and training camps, Trevor used to come snowboarding with my sister and I in Colorado. I remember a conversation I had with him several years ago, while I was still in college, where I told him that I envied his financial independence and self-sufficiency. He told me that he envied my education and political world-view. Chosing to enlist in the military straight out of high school put money in Trevor's pocket and more hair on his chest than anyone expected. Though our paths during our early-twenties could not have been more different, we shared a world of powder and innocence on the mountain for one week every winter. Years later, our roles are somewhat reversed, and the courageous story of Trevor's time in service recently appeared on the front page of the Sacremento News & Review. (Click on the image for the full story)

Forties In Flight

"Women in uniform is another aspect of the forties mood that's floating around this Fall, so the spirit of Gaultier's show cross-referenced knowingly with the mainstream flow of fashion." -Sarah Mower

Provocateur

“I think it’s dangerous to play it safe because you will just get lost in the midst of cashmere twin sets. People don’t want to see clothes. They want to see something that fuels the imagination.” -Alexander McQueen

Philippe Petit: Man on Wire

In 1974 Philippe Petit successfully walked across a high wire between New York's Twin Towers. I knew I was going to have to watch this documentary when it won an Oscar for Best Documentary this year, and it is safe to say I couldn't relax for the first twenty minutes. The film explores the preparations that went into the stunt as well as the event and its aftermath. It is a deeply poetic and beautiful documentary that I highly recommend.

Fear of Flying

"There is nothing fiercer than a failed artist. The energy remains, but, having no outlet, it implodes in a great black fart of rage which smokes up all the inner windows of the soul. Horrible as successful artists often are, there is nothing crueler or more vain than a failed artist."

Erica Jong, Fear of Flying

John Updike 1933-2009

John Updike's Mighty Pen

"What other writers, young and old, prized most about Mr. Updike was his prose — that amazing instrument, like a jeweler's loupe; soprecise, exquisitely attentive and seemingly effortless. If there were a pill you could take to write like that, who wouldn't swallow a handful?" -Charles McGrath

I Heart Snow

When else would you have the opportunity to show off this reptilian relic?

Rosie Mariposa

...Because few things are cuter than a new puppy. Especially when it belongs to the little girls upstarirs.

Eavesdropping On A Close Friend

Overheard...
Brian: "Al, don't know why I haven't replied to you yet. I really appreciate that comment from you. You can come to Chicago and I would definitely start a band with you any day. For real.

(Side note, I always find this odd talking to someone I know in a public venue such as their Facebook wall. It's like talking loudly about a date ina crowded elevator... So, we can talk later when we getoff the elevator. Peace man. ...See, like right there. totally pretentious. that comment isn't foryou. That comment is to be clever. Or weird. Or something. Okay, maybe I'm just a pretentious bastard and I can't help it, like right now in this pretentious side note.)

Point is, does anyone know why we write on people's [Facebook] walls instead of sending them a personal message? I guess because it's safer to keep people at arm's distance because direct messages digitally is practically hugging. So consider this a hardy handshake with short, but meaningful, eye contact. That sounds uncomfortable.

Oh yeah, and one more thing. It just struck me. It's really because we're all closet voyeurs and exhibitionists flapping our fking feathers (hoping only the right people stalk us) to show we have friends and are connected and social and those freaks who create this slideshow of every single weekend with a bunch of uncropped photos of the same 3 people smiling the same smile in 7 locations, faces completely void of any real emotion to show that they have fun consistently and are beautiful. That's what it is.

Maybe I'm just projecting. That's what an asshole would say. That's what I would say to someone who said this to me. Transitive property."

Brian Hurd is an independant singer and songwriter living in Chicago, IL. Listen to his recordings at bhurdproductions.com

Batman and Robin, 1996. "If you're an artist or photographer, you do it all the time, and you do it because you love it, and you don't know what else to do. You just have to. It changed for me at that point, because I just did it no matter what." Terry Richardson

I BELIEVE I CAN FLY

Kyle Ireland and I on Thanksgiving

Environment Beware

"So here we are in the waning days of [Pres. Bush's] presidency, and he's still at it. Bush and Cheneyhave been working feverishlyto write as many as, by one count, 130 new regulations undermining federal laws protecting not just our environment but also our civil liberties and personal safety. ...It's the environmental equivalent of stuffing the china and silverware into your suitcase before clearing out of the guest room."

-Graydon Carter, Editor Vanity Fair

MY HOROSCOPE: Nov. 26

"You may be entering the most creative decade of your life as passionate Pluto moves through your 5th House of Self-Expression. Karmic issues involving children could alter your future, or you could find yourself in the most profound romance of your life. Whatever happens, be aware that you will be required to ride the waves of the present moment. Learning how to be spontaneous could be the most important skill to acquire at this time"

I can't help but heart this horoscope, seeing as I could go for a helping of passion and romance right now. And, most creative decade of my life? Goodness, who would complain about that? I'm grateful for such a splendid prediction this Thanksgiving (hocus pocus, or not).

As for "Karmic issues involving children" altering my future ...I'll be stocking up on condoms, thank you very much.

TIP OF THE DAY: Keep a diary if you want to keep your friends

Not because it's the safest place to write about feelings and scribble down your dreams, but because if you don't write those feelings down somewhere (god help us), we'll all have to hear about them. Best friends excluded.

SKIPPER "That's the problem. I'm too nice. I'm a romantic. I just have so much feeling."

CARRIE BRADSHAW "Are you sure you're not gay?"

SKIPPER "No, I'm sensitive. And I don't objectify women. Ya know, most guys, when they meet a girl, the first thing that they see is..."

CARRIE "Pussy?"

SKIPPER "Eeeeeew, awww, oh god, I hate that word!"

Sex and the City, Episode 1, 1998

Ode to Jess' Jacket

Nothing says bossy like a double-breasted military coat. Props to Jess for this adorable, economically-friendly find. She will receive a Linda's Adoration and Undying Affection Coupon redeemable for one Tahona coin-style margarita of her choice. (Offer expires 12/01/08)

Whoopie by Annie Lebowitz

POLITICAL FLIRTATIONSHIP

"The two parties which divide the state, party of Conservatism and that of Innovation ... have disputed the possession of the world ever since it was made ... Innovation is the salient energy, Conservatism the pause on the last moment."

Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1841

Where are the Turtles?

October 31, 2008

Ali and Adam's Wedding

Singing ladies, November 8, 2008

Bride and groom daaaaancing

Yes We Can....

October 25, 2008

TIP OF THE DAY: Put your popularity in check

A great way to put your popularity in check -or teach your high and mighty friend a lesson, is to forget your cell phone at home (or purposely hide hers).

We've all accidentally forgotten our phone at home at some point or another and spent the entire time daydreaming about all of the calls we're missing from all of our friends who are so desperately trying to get a hold of us. This type of thinking will inevitably make you feel like shit when you get home and find out that you have zero missed calls (or maybe one from your parents).

The goal here is to keep your expectations low by saying things like, "Well, I already told everyone I wouldn't be available today, so I'm not expecting any calls," and other lies to let those around you know how well you're dealing with this. If you suffer from technology separation anxiety, start slow. Leave your phone at home for an hour while you run an errand, then work your way up to an entire day.

You never have as many missed calls as you imagine, and you're really not as popular as you think.

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Elsheba Khan at the grave of her son, Specialist Kareem Rashad Sultan Khan. His obituary in The Star-Ledger of Newark said that he had sent his family back pictures of himself playing soccer with Iraqi children and hugging a smiling young Iraqi boy.

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